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How does consent apply to femdom fisting?
Fisting, while considered an electrifying way to explore and discover deeper levels of pleasure, is still considered a taboo fetish. Before diving into this exciting and intricate act, it’s essential to ensure the actively involved parties are in complete agreement. With femdom fisting, which involves a dominant woman (domme) and her submissive partner (sub), the delicate dialogue of consent must be enhanced.
Fisting is an extreme activity that can make one feel exposed, vulnerable, and even scared. Pushing through these emotions can result in immense pleasure, but the process of fisting must not be taken lightly. As such, understanding what consent looks like when it comes to fisting should be at the forefront of any femdom-fisting session.
First and foremost, consent implies voluntary participation from both the domme and her sub. For any activity to be considered consensual, everyone actively involved in the scene must freely give their consent without coercion, intimidation, or manipulation. Fisting is an intimate activity that should not be forced upon one’s partner – if the Domme sees her sub is uneasy or reluctant, the activity should be ceased.
When discussing femdom fisting with a partner, the two must clarify any anticipatory pain, apprehensions, and processes involved. Many believe that part of the pleasure derived from this experience is pushing through the pain, but this is not for everyone. Communication should facilitate an understanding of what the partner is comfortable with and any boundaries they have. It’s also essential to replace fear with trust – outside of the bedroom, it’s imperative that domme and sub cultivate an understanding of each other’s desires, needs, wants, and boundaries.
Having an awareness of the emotional aspect of fisting is equally important as knowing the physical element. Sitting in that vulnerable space can be difficult for a sub, and often times, a domme must not only guide, but provide emotional support as well. How will the domme and her sub feel after the occasion? What do both of their expectations entail? Processing and understanding these emotions is key for both the domme and her sub to explore fisting with consent.
It’s important to remember that consent applies to femdom-fisting on a continuous basis. While still doing the activity, verbal consent should constantly be checked in with both domme and sub. If at any point, either party feels as though they are uncomfortable, the activity should cease immediately. Additionally, when laying down boundaries, both the domme and sub should make sure that the boundaries contain a fluidity that allows them to renegotiate in order to ensure that the act remains consensual.
When it comes to femdom-fisting, consent is an essential practice that allows for one to explore their sexuality without crossing any boundaries. In order to foster a safe and enriching experience for both parties, consent must be established and negotiated between domme and sub before the activity even takes place. By fostering the conversation and being aware of one’s emotions, the domme and her sub can safely embark on their journey of sexual exploration.